Guide to Erotic Electrostimulation for Beginners

Erotic electrostimulation also known as erotic e-stim and or electrosex is a sexual practice involving the application of electrical stimulation to the nerves of the body, with particular emphasis on the genitals, using a power source like TENS, EMS, violet wands, or made-for-play units for sexual stimulation purposes. Electrostimulation falls under the category of BDSM activities, specifically under sensation play.

Perhaps you’ve never heard of e-stim play and might want to try it or you’ve been curious about this. Before you start trying the e-stim sex you have to educate yourself first. If done incorrectly, this practice can be very dangerous and lethal. Any electric power source that produces heat can result in burns, heart attacks, and even death. When electrostimulation is used incorrectly, it can cause tissue damage or even death. Those interested in e-stim should educate themselves on the risks and hazards and never practice e-stim while pregnant.

Ask your doctor before trying e-stim toys.

Consult your doctor before trying e-stim toys to make sure you’re in physical condition to play with these kinds of toys. When you are tired, dehydrated, undernourished, ill, or not at your best, do not use electrosex kits.

Do not use electrostimulation devices on areas above the waist.

The most common problems arising from electrostimulation are burns from lack of sufficiently wide surface contact, and bad contact, between the electrode and the skin's surface. Even at relatively low current and voltage, there is also the risk of interference with normal heart function, and this risk is higher for those who use an artificial pacemaker or similar device, or who suffer from heart disease. As a result, it is not recommended that the electrical contacts be placed in such a way that electricity travels through the chest cavity.

"Stimulation should not be administered across or through the head, directly on the eyes, nipples, covering the mouth, on the front of the neck (particularly the carotid sinus), or from electrodes positioned on the chest and upper back or crossing over the heart," according to the international standard on the fundamental safety of medical nerve and muscle stimulators.

If done incorrectly, e-stim can be deadly.

A man from Pennsylvania was sentenced for third-degree murder and reckless endangerment after killing his wife with electrostimulation to her nipples directly from a power strip plugged into the mains. 

Do not make your own e-stim toys.

Make sure you buy e-stim toys from trusted sex toy companies that actually know what they’re doing. Toys developed by trusted companies for this type of play will not do you any bodily harm. Ensure that you only use e-stim devices designed for human use, with graded intensity and safety shut-off functions.

Do not try if you have a heart condition of any kind.

If you have a heart condition of any kind, stay away from the electrical play. Even at relatively low current and voltage, there is also the risk of interference with normal heart function (potentially including cardiac arrest), and this risk is higher for those who use an artificial pacemaker or similar device or who have heart conditions.

Don’t practice e-stim while on alcohol or drugs.

These can increase a person's pain threshold, which implies you applied too much intensity.

Established a safe word with your partner.

If you are into BDSM then a safe word is not unfamiliar. It is always a good idea to establish a safe word with your partner just in case. 

Use e-stim safe lubricant.

Do not use silicone-based ingredients. Silicone and oil-based lubricants can function as insulators, dulling the sensation. To avoid the possible risk of high-current skin burning during e-stim, electro-conductive water-based gels are advised. To improve sensitivity and avoid skin discomfort, use a water-based lubricant (with internal attachments) or electro-conductive gel (with exterior attachments).

Correct E-stimming should leave no scars or bruises.

According to Dr. Sherry, burns are the most prevalent type of injury, although using electro-conductive gels can help reduce this issue.

Use e-stim toys that are right for you.

Low-frequency treatment devices can cause zapping or stinging sensations. Higher frequency devices with denser attachments, such as rubber or steel, are "smoother" and concentrate muscle contractions better. Those who are beginners and are new to the world of electro-sex may begin with a little touch or tickle over the skin, utilizing surface electrodes such as an electro pinwheel. This is a small spiky wheel with a handle that dances across the skin, causing little tingles and prickles. Insertables such as electric butt plugs, dildos, and noises may all deliver surprisingly thrilling experiences, and in some circumstances, can practically lift you off your feet with ecstasy, for those searching for a more extreme encounter. Everyone is unique, and although some may love the new feelings, others may find them too overwhelming. Take your time and experiment at lower intensities. You should keep in mind that genitalia can be more sensitive to stimulation than other parts of your body, so it's better to start out slower and amp up the intensity as you get used to it. 

So if you’re planning to try e-stim play read and research the safety precautions or product manuals before purchasing or trying a product. Use caution, and remember to set boundaries. Checkout our Calexotics e-stim massagers. Electrify your senses and enjoy!